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Are You Noticing? What It Takes To Actually See.

You might not be noticing everything you can.

Recently, I’ve made the dual commitments of noticing and presence. More than a few friends have mentioned to me that I have a knack for checking my phone. More than a knack, an obsession.  I tell myself that I need to be dialed-in because I communicate through e-mail and facebook; I try to stay engaged to news and information through Twitter, and of course, there’s this blog. What’s more, I keep my calendar and to-do’s on my phone. Therefore, in order to function, I have to look at my phone. While I think I’m staying connected to what makes my world function others interpret my frequent checking as distance and disinterest.

And they’re not wrong.

Multiple times I’ve been at lunches or dinner wherein others did what I’ve been accused of and it drives me nuts. So, I made a decision to notice things and be present to others. In an attempt to notice, I’ve taken up photography.

This is what I’m learning.

  1. Beautiful Things Are All Around. Now that I’m looking for things to take pictures if – merely for the sake of learning my camera (Nikon D3100 14.2MP Digital SLR Camera with 18-55mm f/3.5-5.6 AF-S DX VR Nikkor Zoom Lens) – I’m seeing things that I never would have otherwise noticed. Walking around Kingwood, TX this weekend, I was reminded of David’s question in Psalm 8, “When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them?” Our world is crawling with everyday beauty, testaments to God’s creativity and goodness, but we hardly ever notice.
  2. Noticing Takes Time. In my iPhone, Evernote, iPad world, the main thing I’m trying to do is streamline; to get more done faster. It’s hard to notice that way. Like many leaders, I’ve been constantly encouraged to produce. Production and noticing have a strange relationship. They are not necessarily opposed but they do enjoy a healthy tension. The more that needs to be produce, the less the smaller things get notice. Therefore, you have to go out of your way to notice. If you’re a high-achiever, it’s likely that you struggle with noticing. But if you were to read through the ministry of Jesus, you’d notice he does a lot of noticing. He is free to be distracted by people, to put the daily task aside to be present to the needs and people in front of him.

So, how about you? Are you in too much of a rush to notice? Do the people around you notice you not noticing them?

  • Ron Dunagan

    Sean,

    When I finally stop after a day of hustle and start getting “unfocused” I am amazed how my body responds. When it starts taking in all the sites and sounds around me it sighs, relaxes, and I find that I need to do it more often.

  • Carol

    Sean –

    I grew up and was a young adult without all the technology we have today. Now I wonder how we ever got along without all the gadgets to make our lives easier. Stopping and smelling the roses is something alot of us have forgotten to do and it is something that has always opened my eyes to the splendor and the life the Lord has given me.

  • I love the way Jesus notices the things that others missed, like the widow woman giving 2 little coins, when everyone else was hearing the large coins being dropped in the pots, he heard. It must have sounded like thunder in Heaven! Someone giving their all! Wow and everyone else missed it, but it stopped the Son of God.

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